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Mika
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Uh Oh! My tattoo

Carl found out that I got a tattoo 2 weeks ago. I knew that he was against them- but I've wanted one since before were together. I should have told him about it right away- but when I started to tell him. He told me this story with degradation and aggravation about a women that owns a company that he works with and how his opinion of her diminished when he discovered she was tatted. He equates tattoos with trashiness though I've tried to advise him that lots of professional people also wear them. This caused a MAJOR blow up that I thought was the end of our "relationship" I WAS wrong to not tell him- but I feel that he is wrong to try to "forbid" me to do things- Can we say controlling? We're trying to work through it (which is excellent) but it puts me hugely backward with my goal of increased communication


 

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